When I
started public speaking in the a class by Mrs. Cangco in the mid-1990s, AMA COMPUTER COLLEGE
class of 1993, I was deathly afraid.
It's taken me
20 years to get comfortable. I hope many of you are called upon to give
speeches it's
the closest thing to being a professional athlete that many of
us will achieve. Here are tips for
giving great speeches:
Have
something interesting to say. If you have
nothing to say, you shouldn't speak. end of discussion.
Cut the
sales pitch. The purpose of most keynotes is to entertain and inform. It's
seldom to provide
you with an opportunity to pitch. For example, if you're
invited to speak about the future of digital
music, don't talk about the latest
cellphones, gadget you are selling.
Focus on
entertaining. Many speech coaches will disagree, but the goal of a speech is to
entertain
the audience. If people are entertained, you can slip in a few
nuggets of information. But if your
speech is dull, no amount of information
will make it great. If I had to pick between entertaining
and informing an
audience, I would pick entertaining.
Understand
the audience. If you can prove to your audience in the first five minutes that
you
understand who they are, you've got them for the rest of the speech.
All
you need to understand are the trends, competition and key issues facing the
audience members.
Overdress. Never dress beneath the level of the audience. To underdress is to communicate,
"I'm smarter/richer/more powerful than you. I can't take you seriously,
and there's nothing you
can do about it." This is hardly the way to get an
audience to like you.
Tell
stories. The best way to relax when giving a speech is to tell stories--any
stories: stories about
your youth, about your customers, etc. When you
tell a story, you lose yourself in the storytelling.
You're not "making a
speech" anymore. You're simply having a conversation. Good speakers are
good storytellers; great speakers tell stories that support their message.
Talk to them (the audience ) before the speech--especially the ones in the first rows. Then,
when
you're at the podium, you'll see these friendly faces. Your confidence
will soar, you'll relax and
you'll be great.
Speak at the
start of an event. The audience is fresher. They're more apt to listen to you,
laugh at
your jokes and follow your stories.
Practice,
and speak all the time.

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